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As I lay on my bed, a flash back of the events of the the evening ruminated my mind. He just couldn't take his eyes off me, although I stole some glances at him... he kept on staring and at some point I had to change my position but that didn’t help the situation. My bestie, Precious invited me to her birthday party at her place at upper Sakponba. As usual, the whole place was filled with the good, the bad, the ugly, and the beautiful ones. My red Peplon top with my white trousers didn't help matters as it drew a lot of attention to me. Towards the end of the party, he walked towards me just as I expected. It was when he came close that I noticed he wore a designer's shirt with a matching trouser, he smelt good and looked good... he was handsome with full lips and blue eyes, Infact he was gorgeous. He spoke fluently, introduced himself as Tony and asked for my name, I told him mine. After much exchange of pleasantries, he asked for my number which I gave him without ...

Most Nigerian men make the mistake of thinking their women are totally satisfied when they buy her good clothes, cars, give her enough money, and provide for her and the kids. But sorry to burst your bubbles, it doesn’t stop there. In fact what I am about to reveal to YOU is very important to your wife/partner so much that the rest might hardly mean much to her if its missing. My name is Mrs. Jenny Anthony, just like most Nigerian men, my husband Jerry for a long time made the mistake of assuming everything I needed ends when he does all the above mentioned things. But being a woman, I know that there is still one thing that he neglects and fails woefully at…and that is being able to rock my world in bed. Yes, I said it! Most men fail woefully at satisfying their women sexually and most don’t even know it or know but ignore it. It’s exactly what most married women cannot tell their husbands and as a result, there’s a lot of infidelity, broken homes and divorces. No wonder the r...

The early bird gets the worm! (Yes, that’s a euphemism.) A lot of us are conditioned to consider s*x to be a pre-bed thing — and it can be. But it doesn’t have to be. In fact, there’s lots of reasons to consider getting it on in the morning. Getting frisky in the morning simply makes s*x better. Not only can you take advantage of testosterone levels and morning wood but the endorphins help to ensure that you’ll start the day in a good mood, says Dr. Jess, Astroglide’s resident sexologist. Plus, six more other enticing reasons: 1. It Sets a Positive Tone for the Day. It’s a great way to set the day, starting off on the right foot with your man by immediately getting connected, says dating expert Laurel House. If you’re tired and “not in the mood” in the morning but your man naturally wakes up excited, let him take you from behind. Lay on your side, his arms wrapping around your body to hold you close, as he presses inside you from behind. 2. It Makes You Pretti...

Finding a perfect partner that seems as your soulmate is just the very first step of building strong relationships. The most difficult part comes with the flow of time when you’ll have to keep that fire burning. The essential part in loving each other is: A. learning to love oneself first.  So here are the tips you should follow: 1) Practice mentally Start from simply practicing with the words. Stand in front of the mirror and say to the reflection how beautiful it is and how much you love it. 2) Practice physically Eat healthy food, do morning exercises, go to the gym at least twice a week. Taking care of your body means loving it. 3) Spend some time and money for yourself Don’t spare the time to find a hobby – something you’ll be enjoying doing. Don’t spare some money to spend for your own relaxation – like going to the professional for massage or doing some cleaning spa proceduresfor your skin. 4) Have ...

People get into relationships with hope that it would last for a very long time, but that isn't always the case sometimes. When a relationship becomes unbearable due to certain unpleasant circumstances, then you might consider ending it. So how do you know when to quit a relationship that's not working? Here are eight signs you need to look out for: Infidelity: While you may give your partner a second chance if they cheat on you, you may also need to consider letting them go when this becomes a regular occurence. The first time may be a mistake, but repeated acts of infidelity is inexcusable and you don't have to put up with such a person. Someone who hurts your feelings over and over again does not love you, so you need to let them go Physical Abuse: If your partner hits you once, there's a chance it can happen again. Whether it happened when your partner was drunk or during a heated argument, this is a real cause for concern. You might decide to forgive a...

With my towel tied round my chest I walked carelessly into the sitting room I had forgot my phone there earlier on after watching my favorite show on TV There he was, the one I admired but whom never seemed to look at me I was a little embarrassed because I was in my towel and was not expecting to meet him there Our eyes met, my body shivered and I let go My towel dropped... His eyes were all over me like a desperate lion looking for a prey I quickly picked my towel and dashed into my room leaving my phone out for the second time I had come over to my Funke's place to spend some days Funke had been my best friend since secondary school I came into Lagos few days back for an interview at KC foods limited Funke had left me with her elder brother for Abuja He had been quite cold to me since my arrival I could tell he was running away from something I had  all that it took to make a man go crazy My experience with my past 2 boyfriends had proven it My boobs comple...

A 91-year-old woman is believed to have suffocated during a sex game with her 49-year-old neighbour. The woman was found on her bed naked from her waist down next to a sex toy in Aveiro, 50 miles south of Porto, Portugal. A married dad-of-two living next door has been arrested after DNA analysis of semen recovered from the scene. He was released on bail after going before a judge who was told autopsy results showed she died from asphyxia thought to have taken place during a sex game that spiralled out of control. The death is believed to be the result of a tragic accident. A neighbour described the woman, who lived alone, as being “very active” despite her age and said the neighbour often went round her house to do odd jobs. Police say there was no sign of a forced entry and nothing had been taken from the house. Source: UK Mirror